Does God Hate Sinners?
We can only understand hatred from a sinful and broken perspective. We know when we hate something that it is tainted with sin. When we hear that God hates something we are shocked by it, and yet, that is what the Bible clearly says (Psalm 5:4-5, etc.). The word used for "hate" in the 5th Psalm means "to have an aversion, unwilling or unable to put up with, to dislike intensely".
In other words, God, in His perfect righteousness and holiness is unable, and unwilling to put up with evil and the evildoer. What does that mean for our attitude toward those who hate God? What does that mean concerning God's disposition toward us when we sin? First, you have to ask, "What biblical category am I in?"
The Bible speaks of two categories of people - the righteous and the wicked. Read Psalm 1 for a clear depiction of the two categories. You can also read Matthew 25 to hear Jesus' words concerning the wicked and the righteous. There are no in-between people. We are either wicked or we are righteous.
The Bible also speaks of these two types of people as either under the Covenant God has made with His people or outside of the Covenant God has made with His people. You guessed it, those under the Covenant are those who are viewed as righteous and loved by God. Those outside of the Covenant are those viewed as wicked and hated by God. We are either a sheep or a goat. We are either righteous or wicked. We are either loved or hated.
The Covenant was made by God after sin entered the world. He promised that He would redeem the world and offer salvation. The entire Old Testament concerns the preparation of the fulfillment of that Covenant. At it's core, the Covenant is this, "I will be Your God and you will be My people. I will dwell with you and you will dwell with Me." Jesus Christ is the fulfillment of that Covenant. That is why He said at the Last Supper, "This cup is the New Covenant in my blood which is poured out for many."
How does someone enter into the Covenant God has made with his people? There is only one way and that is through faith in Jesus Christ as the author and perfector of our faith. When we come to faith in Jesus, we are united to the person of Christ and His work. Everything that Jesus did and accomplished is on our behalf. When God sees us, he no longer sees our wickedness because our sins have been paid for and cleared by the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. In other words, justice has been served on our behalf. Through Christ, God is perfectly just in loving people who once hated Him and sinned against Him.
For those under the Covenant through faith in Christ, there is never a time that you can make God love you more and there is never a time that you can make God love you less. God will never hate on you again. Even when you sin, and God is grieved, He doesn't fall out of love with us. He disciplines us and he calls us back into fellowship with Him. You can never lose the salvation that has been graciously given to you. It wasn't given to you because of good works and it can't be taken from you because of sinful works.
What about those people outside of the Covenant? God will not put up with and is unable to put up with their rebellion. God graciously calls those outside of the Covenant to leave their rebellion and to enjoy the blessings of His love inside of the Covenant. Romans 5 tells us that God demonstrated His own love for us in this, that while we were still God-haters, Christ died for us. In other words, even though God hates the wicked and the wickedness they commit, He still gave His son to call His enemies to be sons. This is the scandalous grace at the center of the Gospel.
If God hates the sinner and the sin, how does that affect our mission? Are we to hate the sinner as well? The simple answer is "no". Jesus tells us to love our enemies. This is the same word that Paul uses in Romans 5 to tell us how God demonstrated His love by offering His son for HIs enemies. We are not called to judge those outside of the Covenant. That is why the Scriptures tell us that vengeance belongs to the Lord. Our mission is to love our enemies by telling them of the great news of the Gospel and to act in such a way that makes the love of Christ evident in our lives.
The Christian Church has a problem. We mistake sayings that fit on coffee mugs for true theology. There is truth in the saying, "Love the sinner and hate the sin" but it is not robust enough to encompass a conversation concerning God's aversion to sin and His holy wrath. The saying has it's most modern use in a statement from Ghandi rather than any Christian source. Augustine instructed the church to love mankind and revile sin. It is a thoroughly Christian concept to love people and to hate evil. But that statement becomes more complex when we speak about the attributes of God.
I would also suggest that we stop using that particular statement, as those that we intend to encourage with it actually hate the saying. The reason they hate it is because today's culture easily identifies their personhood with their sin. In other words, to tell a person today that you hate their sin is equivalent to telling them that you hate them. It's not a helpful statement in most Western conversations about sin. We need something deeper and a more compassionate way to love and serve those who are on the outside looking in.
There is obviously much more to discuss concerning God's hatred of evil and evildoers. But for now, the biggest question you must answer is whether or not you have come to true faith in Christ and are under the Covenant. These passages were included in the original Scriptures to lead us to the holiness of God and our total dependence on His grace. There is no need to be ashamed of these passages or try to explain them away. Rather, let them be passages that lead us to worship God more fervently for the deep grace He has given us in Christ. You are no longer enemies, but sons and daughters of the living God. Let us be motivated to grow the family even bigger so that many can experience the love of God that we have in Christ Jesus.
Obviously God hates sinners not just their sin. Therefore, God hates me. There's no point in asking Him for forgiveness. I'm doomed.Dont try to tell me otherwise.
I will not try to convince you, but the Word of God can.
Romans 8:1-2 NLT
"So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death."
Romans 8:34-39 NLT
"Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and he is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us. Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean he no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.” ) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Romans 5:1-2 NLT
"Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory."
Romans 5:6-11 NLT
"When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners. Now, most people would not be willing to die for an upright person, though someone might perhaps be willing to die for a person who is especially good. But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God’s condemnation. For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son. So now we can rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God because our Lord Jesus Christ has made us friends of God."
If God hate sinners, then does he at least understand why most sinners do evil? I know why most sinners do evil. It is because they have a lot of hurt and pain in their hearts...
God punishing the wicked for their evil doings is like taking NyQuil for the common fold. He ain't treating the cause, he's treating the symptom.
That makes me question, if this is the case, is God really all-knowing???